Breed it Raw: Talkin' Sex with a Pornstar
- Ian Haddock
- Dec 18, 2015
- 4 min read

My morning routine:
I wake up to get my cake up! Lol.. No.
I wake up a couple hours before work. Sit there and watch My Wife and Kids since I don't go in until noon. Chill. Check Facebook. Scratch my ass. Then, inevitably, find Pornhub. Connect it to my television and go on my search. I have varying tastes when I'm on the prowl for good porn: chemistry, a good flip-flop scene, production company, peen size/ hole prettiness and build all play major parts.
Porn is very critical to my life. I definitely have my favorites; to name a few Rio, Mustang and all them freaky Africans (don't judge me). As I was perusing one morning, I ran into my new favorite and realized he was on all my social media. Me being me, I reached out to him and asked him would he mind chatting one day on Facetime and talking to me about his experience. He was nice enough to agree but after telling him I was a writer and wanted to see if I could document the conversation, he asked to keep his name anonymous as he wanted to tell me his truth-- and that he did! Of course, in wanting the real story, I agreed to keep him confidential because the interview was worth it. Go ahead and read what he ended up telling me.

The Normal Anomaly: Hey man. I just watched you this morning. I saw you in NYC a couple months ago on Jack'd, I thought it was fake, though. Why would someone like you be on a regular social media app?
Pornstar: I'm sure it was probably me. Why can't I be on Jack'd? Ain't it for gay dudes? (Laughs out loud) I love regular sex. Porn is work; I put in real work when the cameras go off.
TNA: I'd have to agree. I watched something like an aftershow online and you kinda went off! Do you have a position preference?
Pornstar: On camera? Probably bottom or vers because that's where the money is and staying hard for hours with all them lights can be difficult. Off camera I'm mostly a top. It surprises me because I'm like, "I know you just seen me get dicked down on video." But I think I still put it down either way.
TNA: Since we are talking about your on camera persona, with going in and out of different production companies, how often are you tested to update your HIV/STI Status?
Pornstar: Honestly, I haven't been tested since 2012 up until recently. I recently found out I am HIV Positive, though. I don't know if it's true for everyone but, at some point, I kinda expected to have this kinda result. The money became more important to me and the more I did, the more I got and the more I got, the more I wanted. I will say this: bareback sex after some time gets you this shit in my opinion.
TNA: So you believe, generally, if you have raw sex, you will contract HIV? If so, as someone that's in many people's homes on a regular basis, why do you promote it by going on camera to do it?
Pornstar: Everyone is sleeping with each other in our community man. Pornstars with escorts with business professionals with drug dealers with drug heads--- everyone is fuckin' each other. So, it's so easy to spread anything and if you are fucking random people then you are bound to at some point contract something you can't get rid of. As far as the second part of the question, I don't feel like I'm no one's role model. It's unfortunate, I think, that we look up to porn stars and escorts in our community instead of business owners and activists. I am here for entertainment. Even worse, I'm the entertainment that is behind closed doors. So, I do what I'm paid for and from the reviews I get, I do it pretty good.
TNA: Interesting point of view. How do you approach sex in your free time?
Pornstar: Just like the next dude. Goin' back to me having my apps: people hit me up on there. I have a rule though: if you ask me am I the pornstar, it's usually a no-go cuz I'm not here to fulfill fantasies unless you are gonna pay me. Otherwise if I'm feeling you and we hit it off, we meet up and get our nut. It's more about people not knowing who I am even though that's seeming to happen less and less. On the other hand, I still appreciate people who I meet who don't mention porn unless it's a reason other than me fuckin you like your favorite scene.
TNA: Do you disclose your status during your off camera hook-ups?
Pornstar: Well, I'm just finding out within the last 4 months so it hasn't been many fucks for free. I really kinda hate sex now that it's setting in, but when I get that itch, I go in with a condom and see what they want to do. Usually they ask for me to take the condom off and I do. The ass feels so much better raw and I'm like I'm pretty sure you have seen me fuck on camera raw so you must know or at least expect the deal. I'm responsible for me, they're responsible for them.
TNA: Thanks for your honesty man. I'm glad we decided to do this anonymously because I don't want to mess up your brand. Good part is: I'll probably go watch you after the call. (Laughs out Loud)
Pornstar: (Laughs out Loud) Thank you for asking me the questions everyone wants to know, but don't feel comfortable asking. Keep up the work you are doing, man, because it's needed. Hopefully we can hang out next time I'm in Houston or you are in NYC.
Interesting, right? Now, it's morning. Let me go take care of some things. Ha! I'll probably be doing a follow-up to give you my thoughts a little later.

-The Normal Anomaly
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